Atheism, Friendship, and Humility

© Copyright 2014 by Gretchen Passantino Coburn


 Recently a Christian asked me to help him answer some challenges from an atheist friend. The Christian had asked the atheist if he would be willing to discuss the existence of God & the problem of evil on-line. The friend responded that he was completely satisfied with his atheism and that atheism answered all of his questions, so on-line discussion was pointless.


 First, I believe this atheist was betraying his friendship with the Christian. The two had been good friends for many years. A true friend would not have rejected a friend’s request to discuss a topic that was important to him, especially one that could govern the friend’s world view & life. A true friend, even if he were completely satisfied with his own beliefs, would be willing to discuss them for the benefit of his friend. In fact, the “Golden Rule” tests the character of anyone, believer or not. I suggested the Christian appeal to the atheist’s friendship, demonstrating his friendship by being willing to discuss such an important issue.


Second, the atheist’s faith in atheism is remarkable in its simplistic assumptions. A reasonable, knowledgeable person will agree that there are many reasonable, intelligent, well educated people who disbelieve in atheism, who believe God exists, who posit arguments, evidence, and reasons for believing in God. This atheist appears to have a blind faith in atheism and in his own mental superiority. There are brilliant individuals such as Albert Einstein, Winston Churchill, Mahatma Ghandi, Max Planck, Stephen L. Carter (law), Michael K. Heller (physics), etc. who are certainly “smarter” than this atheist, & yet they believe in God. Brilliant Christians include William Lane Craig, Alvin Plantinga, Phillip Johnson, Alister McGrath, Condolleeza Rice, etc. (Here’s a list of 50 brilliant people who believe in God.) Humility seems to be in greater evidence among Christians, many of whom are willing to be challenged in their faith, who seek the best evidence & arguments regardless where they lead, & who admit they are open to having their beliefs disproved. If this atheist can be humble enough and honest enough to admit he might be wrong, then he should be open to discussing the issue with his long-time Christian friend. To refuse to do so does not support the truthfulness of his atheism, but merely the pride and egoism of his emotional bondage to atheism.


True friendship is willing to explore important ideas and beliefs for the mutual benefit among friends. True humility is willing to test one’s own beliefs, to follow the evidence and arguments wherever they lead. True faith is not blind or contrary to reality, but is founded on reason. An atheism that is self-centered, egotistical, and blind is not worth holding.


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